A few years back I remember praying, with a sincerity, that I believe only God could break my heart to, to give me wisdom and discernment in knowing what to do about a noncommittal romantic endeavor of which I was involved. I prayed and trusted that God would make it so clear that this person and I should be committed to each other or bless this individual with someone else who would be a wonderful match. I asked God to give me an answer that would be like a slap in the face because, obviously, I wasn’t catching a hint. When someone wonderful did come into my “friend”’s life, I was immediately jealous and all of these ugly thoughts arose. Having forgotten the sincerity behind the prayer offering, I was angry with God as to why he hadn’t made it so my “friend” and I could be together. It wasnt until months later, after going through this rough phase of my life, that God allowed me to see how he HAD answered my prayer…very clearly in fact. I just wasn’t ready to see it. Today, the woman, who came into my “friend”’s life, is no longer with him, and she is, in fact, one of my closest friends. God is good always! Thank you, Rob, for taking the time to share your heart with us.

It is encouraging to read this; sometimes I feel like I keep asking and asking and not seeing any results. The minute i slow down, take a step back, I realize all the wonder that God is fulfilled around me. It’s a beautiful thing, Rob. Thanks for sharing your ideas.